Resources

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Free, confidential help for anyone affected by gambling, including the people around them.

National Problem Gambling Helpline

Call or text 1-800-MY-RESET (1-800-697-3738), or chat online. Free, confidential, 24/7. Run by the National Council on Problem Gambling.

Where to get help

Therapy that specialises in gambling, the state directory, and the peer groups. Listed for what they are; this platform has no arrangement with any of them.

Find help

If money is gone that was meant for rent, food, or someone else, if you are borrowing to keep going, or if you have thought about hurting yourself, call today. The line is free, it is confidential, and the person who answers has heard it before.

1-800-MY-RESETNational Problem Gambling Helpline. Call, text, or chat. Free and confidential, any hour.CallTextChat
  • Birches HealthTherapy

    Online therapy for gambling and other compulsive behaviors, by video with licensed specialists, in all 50 states. Their site says most major insurance plans are accepted, often at $0 to $25 a session. A separate company; this product has no arrangement with them.

    Visit Birches Health
  • KindbridgeTherapy

    Online therapy and counseling for behavioral addictions including gambling, with individual therapy, coaching, and support groups. Their site says they accept major insurance and offer a free first consultation. A separate company; this product has no arrangement with them.

    Visit Kindbridge
  • Help by stateDirectory

    The National Council on Problem Gambling's directory of state programs, counselors, and self-exclusion options.

    Find your state
  • Gamblers AnonymousPeer support

    Peer meetings for people who want to stop gambling, in person and online. Free.

    Find a meeting
  • Financial counsellingMoney

    The National Foundation for Credit Counseling, a nonprofit network of certified credit counselors since 1951, for the debt that gambling leaves behind: budgeting, credit card debt, and debt management plans. They do not treat gambling itself. A separate organization; this product has no arrangement with them.

    Visit the NFCC
  • Gam-AnonPeer support

    Peer meetings for the family and friends of someone who gambles. Free.

    Find a meeting

8.9 yrs

Mean time between when gambling disorder starts and when someone gets treatment for it, longer than the same gap for OCD.

CNS Spectrums, peer-reviewed study, n=298

15%

Of US adults have ever been asked about their gambling by a doctor. Nothing is screening for this.

Harris Poll for NCPG, 2026

73%

Of people contacting the national gambling helpline cite financial stress. It's the single most common reason people finally reach out.

National Problem Gambling Helpline, 2025

~6%

Of US college students are estimated to have a gambling problem, roughly double the adult national rate.

National Council on Problem Gambling (NCPG)

60%

Of 18 to 22 year olds report having bet on sports, most of it through a phone, not a casino.

NCAA membership survey, 2023

19.2%

Of pathological gamblers have filed for bankruptcy, versus 5.5% of low-risk gamblers. Almost a 4x gap.

Gambling Impact and Behavior Study, NORC

How to talk about it

A short, non-judgmental conversation is the intervention with the best evidence for people who are not seeking treatment. Ask one question, then listen. These are openers for a first conversation, by who you are to them.

As their parent

  • I saw a couple of sportsbook charges come through. I'm not upset, I just want to understand what's going on for you.
  • You chose to share this with me, and I appreciate that. Can we talk about what the last few weeks have looked like?
  • I'd rather hear it from you than guess from a bank statement. What's the honest version?

As their spouse

  • I got an alert this week. Before I make it a bigger thing than it is, tell me how you're feeling about it.
  • We agreed to do this together so neither of us has to wonder. Can we look at it together tonight?
  • I'm not keeping score. I want to know if something changed for you recently.

As their sponsor

  • Your account showed some activity this week. Want to walk me through it?
  • No judgment from me. What was going on the day it happened?
  • You set this up for a reason. Let's talk about what you want to do next.

As their friend

  • Hey, I got the alert. I'm not going to lecture you. You okay?
  • Want to grab food and talk about it, or would you rather I just check in next week?
  • You asked me to be the person who notices. I noticed. What do you need?

What to do at each level

The same ladder the app shows an accountability partner. Quiet weeks need nothing. Concern needs one conversation. High concern needs company for the first call.

Stable: say nothing unless asked

Nothing to do. If it comes up, tell them you saw a quiet week and leave it there.

Checking in when nothing happened teaches them that sharing brings scrutiny. Quiet weeks are the reward for sharing.

Elevated: one low-key conversation this week

Pick one of the starters, in person or by voice, not by text. Ask, then listen. Do not bring the numbers unless they ask.

A ten-minute, non-judgmental conversation is the intervention with the best evidence for reducing gambling in people who are not seeking treatment.

High Concern: talk, then offer to sit with them while they reach out

Have the conversation, then offer to be in the room while they call or text 1-800-MY-RESET, or book a first appointment. Offer, do not insist.

People with someone in their corner stay in treatment longer. Your job is to make the first call easy, not to make it for them.

Account went quiet: ask about it directly and kindly

A connected account that stops showing activity usually means money moved somewhere else. Ask plainly: has anything changed with your accounts?

Silence is the one signal a bank feed cannot classify. The conversation is the only way to know what it means.

Account disconnected: this is a conversation, not a verdict

They are allowed to disconnect. They agreed not to do it quietly, and you were told. Ask why, and ask what they want the arrangement to be now.

Leaving is allowed. Leaving quietly is what the product was built to prevent, and it just did its job.

What not to do

Adapted from Gam-Anon's guidance for family and friends.

Self-exclusion and support

Most US states run a voluntary self-exclusion program that bars you from licensed operators for a period you choose. The councils below keep the state-by-state directory current, so we link to it rather than copy it.

State programs and local help

NCPG help by state

Self-exclusion programs, state helplines, and treatment providers, by state.

Gamblers Anonymous

gamblersanonymous.org

Peer meetings for people who want to stop gambling. In person and online.

Gam-Anon

gam-anon.org

For family and friends of people who gamble. The source of the what-not-to-do list above.

National Council on Problem Gambling

ncpgambling.org

Runs the national helpline and publishes the research most of the numbers on this page come from.